Write for us

We welcome clear, original contributions that help readers think more carefully about compatibility, preferences, communication, expectations or the culture of matching.

What to pitch

Send a focused idea with a working title, the central question, the intended reader and a short note on how the piece will answer it. Strong pitches explain a specific concept, compare clearly defined options or trace a useful cultural shift without promising a universal formula.

What makes a useful contribution

Use plain, respectful language and treat people as individuals rather than types to decode. Separate personal interpretation from verifiable claims, avoid unsupported claims about what guarantees a successful relationship, and explain the limits of any framework discussed. Original work should not be copied from other publications.

How to send it

Send proposals through the Contact page and choose the editorial question option. A pitch is a proposal, not a guarantee of publication; include enough detail for the editorial team to understand the angle and its fit.